There’s nothing more frustrating than meeting your soulmate and seeing them reject you, right?
You spend hours obsessing over what went wrong, why he doesn’t write to you, and what you can do to get his attention.
It is a painful situation because you feel that deep connection but you feel powerless. But seeing how your other half rejects you is a great life lesson.
But then what can you do?
In this article, I am going to share 11 things you can do right now to get back in touch and connect with your soul mate.
First, we need to see why the soulmate connection is so unique, so read on to find out everything you need to know about this very unique bond.
What makes a soulmate connection so unique?
To explain what to do when your soulmate ignores you, it’s first important to understand what makes this connection so special.
Soulmates have a connection that transcends normal levels of intimacy.
They connect deeply on an emotional and spiritual level, resulting in a fierce bond of unconditional love.
Think of it this way:
Twin souls are made up of one soul divided into two bodies.
It is as if you share the same soul, the same wounds, and the same purposes in life.
It is essentially the other half of your soul.
This makes their connection very intense. And it could also lead to soul mates challenging each other while also facing many obstacles along their journey together.
But one thing that soul mates often have in common is the feeling of being “at home” when they are together.
There is an instant spark, chemistry, and love, even if it is platonic (soul mates can be family members, friends, or intimate partners).
You may be wondering:
What is the point of having a soul mate?
It is obvious that the love you feel when you are with her is the immediate response that will come to your mind.
But, you see, a soulmate is not there to make you feel comfortable with yourself.
Its purpose is to help you heal and expand and then contribute to the healing of humanity.
It has come into your life to help you overcome your traumas and limitations, and to be the best person you can be.
But, it is not always a smooth ride.
Twin souls could experience separation as well.
And, if your soulmate starts ignoring you out of the blue, it’s not an easy heartbreak to deal with.
But the good news is that with a little insight, you can find out why your soulmate is drifting apart and what you can do while you wait for his return.
Read on to find out…
Why is your soul mate ignoring you?
Let’s get one thing straight: your soulmate isn’t ignoring you in the traditional sense of “ghosting” (when a guy just drops off the face of the earth for no reason).
If your partner ignores you on purpose or causes you pain, they are not your soulmate. Spot.
This is because while it is quite common for soulmates to dance around each other and in and out of each other’s lives, they always come back to each other.
And they never leave out of hate or spite.
Usually, the reasons come from your partner mirroring your inner feelings. So a lot of understanding why he’s turned away has to do with getting to know yourself first.
So what does that mean?
Well, if you’re the one being ignored, you’re probably emotionally hurt, and confused.
Don’t worry, your partner’s silence doesn’t have to be just misery and tears.
Once you understand the reasons why your soulmate ignores you, it will be much easier to implement our 11 strategies.
So, without further ado, let’s move on.
The top reasons why your soulmate is acting distant :
1) It is mirroring your fears
That your soulmate moves away could be a sign that you are not facing your fears. He is reflecting on it with his silence.
Know that you share core wounds with your soul mate. And being afraid of commitment or love are wounds that your soulmate will also have.
In a nutshell:
Until you deal with your own fears of commitment or intimacy, your soulmate won’t deal with theirs either.
You need to find out where your insecurities are, do you fear rejection? Does it bother you to be part of such an intense connection?
Covering it up or hiding it won’t stop your soul mate from silently mirroring you.
We will see more about how to deal with your fears, in the next part of this article.
2) It is reflecting your lack of self-love
Just as your soulmate is mirroring your fears, they could also be highlighting your lack of personal care and love.
You are ignoring parts of yourself that need love. Perhaps for not taking care of yourself or for not respecting your body or your mind.
Your soul mate will automatically mirror this behavior until you get the message and start taking care of yourself.
Whether it’s spiritually, mentally, emotionally, or physically, your soulmate will be picking up on it.
3) What would a real psychic say?
The signs of this article will give you a good idea of why your soulmate is ignoring you and what you can do about it.
Still, topics related to love and dating can be confusing at the best of times, especially since your situation is unique to you.
So could getting some outside guidance help you?
It’s fair to say that there are many scammers out there, who are waiting to take advantage when we are at our most vulnerable.
But after a really challenging breakup, I found that talking to a Psychic Counselor was very helpful.
The advisor I spoke with was friendly, understanding, and insightful.
My loving reading gave me the guidance I was looking for (and needed) during a painful and confusing time.
A talented adviser will not only tell you what is going on with your soulmate but can also reveal all your possibilities in love.
4) Your soulmate is going through a period of growth
Sometimes you and your soulmate need to learn and evolve separately, and although the change in your relationship seems sudden, it is not a reason to panic.
Your soulmate may be discovering something new and may feel like they need to go through this experience alone.
Once they’ve learned what he needs, he’ll be able to rejoin you peacefully, but until then it can be a long wait.
Instead of dwelling on their absence, check out the tips below to see how you can make the most of your soulmate’s estrangement.
10 Important Steps to Take When Your Soulmate Rejects You
1) Heal yourself first
Healing is essential for both of you, and while your partner may be healing on their own, you should focus on repairing your traumas in the meantime.
So what needs to be healed?
First of all, it’s a good idea to start by addressing any fears you have.
Identify past traumas and target false negative beliefs (which you may have inherited through your immediate family or close people).
Other areas of yourself that may need to evolve include:
- past life issues
- Trauma from your past
- Sexual wounds from this life or past lives
- Wounds of your inner girl
Many times part of the evolution and sanction happens when you are together with your soulmate. At the same time, much of what you and he need to process must happen separately.
So instead of seeing their silence as a cause of distress, use it as fuel to heal yourself and revisit the parts of your soul that need attention.
If he is ignoring or rejecting you, for now, you can use this time to take care of yourself.
When your soul mate returns (and it will), the two of you will be ready to meet again. As long as both of you have gone through a journey of healing and self-understanding.
2) Connect with your higher self and raise your vibrations
I know you probably don’t feel in the best place, in the absence of your soulmate, but one of the best things you can do is focus on yourself right now.
Just as healing yourself is an important step in this process, so is raising your vibrations in different ways.
Stop wallowing in sadness and start living life. Your soulmate will come back much faster, once you start loving yourself and creating joy in your life.
So how can you raise your vibrations?
Here are some tips that you can implement little by little, depending on your energy level:
- Do activities that you enjoy (dancing, singing, meeting up with old friends, or just reading your favorite book). Whatever it takes to uplift and cheer your soul
- listen to happy music
- Meditate or practice mindfulness
- To work
- Help the people around you
- Focus on positive relationships and let go of toxic people
Take some time each day dedicated exclusively to yourself and work on strengthening the relationship with your higher self.
3) Give him time and space
As much as you might be tempted to text, call, or visit him in hopes of getting his attention, right now your soulmate doesn’t want or need that.
If anything, you will push him further away by insisting that he talk to you, the opposite of what you want to achieve.
Going back to the point where your soulmate might be afraid of the intense connection you share, it’s likely that they just need time to get over their past traumas.
And there’s nothing wrong with that, right?
Everyone needs space, and time to reflect, and a little distance can do them both good.
A soulmate relationship is intense, and you are both on a journey, learning and growing through the love and connection you share.
So instead of waiting by the phone, trust that eventually he will realize that rejecting you is pointless: the attraction between you is too strong and he will give in once he feels ready to do so.
And you’ll feel better about the fact that she’s making her way to you on her own, for no other reason than that she’s your soulmate. What better way to know that your connection is real?
I know this can be hard when all you want to do is find out if they really love you or not.
4) Face your fears and meet his
Since we’re on the subject of having past traumas, now is a good time to start dealing with them.
Because your fears are automatically reflected in everything you do, and your soul mate can’t help but notice them.
Now he is not only mirroring you but also dealing with any unhealed trauma or experiences of his own.
His rejection is not to hurt you, but to avoid confronting his problems and having to deal with those ghosts that we sometimes wish remained buried.
So what can you do about it?
Well, if possible, you could talk about it with your soul mate. By understanding each other’s fears, you can find a way to stay in touch while you both work through your issues.
If your partner still refuses to talk to you, leave him.
As difficult as it is, you have to learn to take advantage of its absence; after all, it’s just another reminder that they have things to work out.
5) Respect yourself to earn their respect
Just as this works in “traditional” relationships, it also has a major impact on soulmate relationships.
That is because when you respect yourself and raise your self-esteem, your soul mate has no choice but to do the same.
In short, you are raising the bar and he will have you on the same level.
And by loving yourself, your soul mate will also rise to the occasion. It will be natural for him to reflect on how he feels about you.
6) Accept that your partner has more distant moments
What makes a soulmate connection different from other types of relationships?
It is the fact that they share an unconditional love for each other.
Loving and respecting each other on this higher level means accepting the other for who they are. You must understand that separation does not mean the end of your relationship.
Your soul mate needs to isolate himself from time to time to work on himself. And although it seems painful, it happens because you also need to work more on yourself.
So instead of wasting your energy chasing after him, reconsider his distance. You may understand it as rejection, but it is actually a sign that both of you are going through progressive changes. That distance between you is actually a necessity, not a problem.
And remember that unconditional love means loving him and respecting his space. And that means no matter how much you want or need to talk to him.
By forcing him to talk to you, your love would have conditions that must be met, and that’s not how it works.
It is a difficult truth to digest at first, but eventually, you will assimilate it. When you do, your soulmate relationship will be easier to navigate.
7) Don’t chase them, but don’t cut off communication completely
I reiterate what I mentioned about not chasing your soulmate: The more you obsess, the more you’re wasting energy that could be directed to better things, like self-care and growth.
But that doesn’t mean you should give it up entirely. Don’t give in to your ego, which will no doubt tell you to retaliate by blocking it forever.
It might be tempting when you’re feeling so hurt, but you’ll only make the situation worse.
Instead, leave some channel of communication open, even if that means just texting that you’re ready to talk when he is.
Let him know that you are still there for him. Show him that you still love and care about him, but that you are respecting his space and his time.
This will take some of the pressure off him and he’ll be more likely to come back to you once he feels ready to do so. In the meantime, avoid constantly thinking about him and attend to other matters.
8) Listen to your intuition
You know your soulmate better than anyone. Take advantage of the strategies we have shared and the knowledge of your partner. Trust your instinct and flow, go with the flow.
If your gut tells you to contact him after a certain amount of time, do so.
If it tells you that your soul mate is searching for something, look within and see if you have any unresolved conflicts.
Remember, you both share core wounds, but each needs its own space to resolve them.
And listen to your intuition, you might also feel like your partner is maliciously ignoring you.
A soulmate would never intentionally hurt you.
They just might not see any other way to process their problems (and yours).
Make your relationship stronger
If you are in a soulmate relationship, enjoy it.
These types of relationships can be fleeting and short or last for years. The truth is that the impact they have on you will remain for the rest of your life.
It is a beautiful thing to experience.
However, soulmate relationships are not magical. Like any relationship, they require work and perseverance to last a lifetime.
For this reason, I recommend talking to an intuitive and authentic professional advisor.
And there is a company that I always end up recommending: “Your Psychic”.
They not only surprised me with their accurate readings. They were also so kind and understanding of my situation, that I felt much better and hopeful after talking to them.
So if you are tired of wondering about the reasons for your soul mate’s rejection and whether or not there is hope, get in touch with a legitimate psychic.
Take control of your future in your own hands. I did it and I never regretted having made that decision.